Whether you want smooth skin, neatly trimmed hair, or total natural freedom, your choice matters most. Taking care of your pubic hair isn’t about meeting someone else’s standard — it’s about how you feel in your body. This is your routine, your comfort, and your confidence.

Trimming offers a gentle, low-stress option. Using clean scissors or a safe electric trimmer, you can shorten hair without removing all of it. You control the length and shape, and you avoid some of the irritation that can come from shaving or waxing. Many women find trimming every few weeks helps them stay tidy without over-grooming.

Waxing gives you longer smoothness by pulling hair out at the root. Because hair takes longer to grow back after waxing, this option often delivers a clean, fresh sensation for a few weeks or more. Some women discover that regular waxing reduces ingrown hairs or makes regrowth softer. Waxing can be a bit uncomfortable at first, so soothing your skin afterward matters. Keep aftercare simple and gentle; clean tools, neutral creams, and avoiding harsh scents help minimize redness or bumps.

Staying natural is a powerful option too. Let your body do its thing. Pubic hair has a purpose: it can reduce friction, provide a barrier to irritants, and serve as part of your body’s natural design. If you don’t want to spend time or money on grooming, that’s totally valid. Comfort, not conformity, should guide your decision.

Whichever approach you choose, hygiene and self-awareness matter. Clean tools will reduce your risk of irritation or infection. Observe how your skin responds: if something feels itchy, sore, or inflamed, pause, clean up, and consider a gentler method. Be patient with yourself as you experiment. There’s no single right answer — only what makes you feel most at ease and sensual in your own body.

It’s time we talk about female masturbation. Many of us are fine talking about sex with friends, but masturbation often stays in the shadows. That’s a shame, because solo pleasure can be deeply empowering and richly pleasurable. Let’s dissolve the shame, explore the benefits, and learn how to enjoy ourselves more fully.

Masturbating regularly brings real rewards — it helps you let go of stress, understand your body more clearly, and build sexual satisfaction. When you know what feels good on your own, you can speak more confidently about what you want during partnered sex. That makes connection stronger and pleasure more focused.

If solo exploration feels new, or if it’s been a while, go slow. Give yourself full permission to take the time you need. You might try different touches, rhythms, or pressures to discover what sparks your pleasure. If you’re curious about toys, experiment, but only pick what speaks to you. You don’t need anyone else’s approval — just your own.

Setting the mood makes a difference. Candles, soft music, scented massage oil — little extras can help your brain relax and your body open up. And don’t skip the lube; it reduces friction and often makes the experience smoother and more pleasurable.

Masturbation isn’t taboo, it isn’t weird — it’s normal, natural, and an important part of your sexual journey. You deserve to know your own body, to discover your own desire, and to enjoy it on your own terms.

 Regularly engaging in solo pleasure not only helps reduce stress but also increases awareness of one's body and sexual responses. Set aside some ‘me-time’ every once in a while (or more often!) and explore different ways of pleasuring yourself – after all, nobody knows your body better than you do! 

You may have been asking yourself this question for a long time. Maybe it just popped into your mind. Or a friend nudged you toward this topic. Either way, welcome — no matter your age or background. We’re here to explore sexual orientation with you, and to give you insight as you figure out what feels true for you.

Understanding your sexuality doesn’t require instant clarity. You don’t need to have all the answers now. In fact, knowing and accepting your orientation often becomes a lifelong journey. It’s okay to sit with questions. It’s okay to feel uncertain. What matters most is your willingness to stay curious and give yourself time.

Start by reflecting on your life and background. Consider how your family, culture, or religious beliefs shaped the way you see yourself. Sometimes, what you’ve learned about what’s “normal” or “allowed” can cloud what’s genuine inside you. If it ever gets overwhelming to sort through, a supportive therapist or counselor can help you untangle those threads.

Talking openly with someone you trust can really help. It doesn’t have to be someone who knows everything about LGBTQ+ issues, though that can be useful. A friend, mentor, or family member who listens without judgment can help you sharpen your own understanding. Sometimes hearing your thoughts aloud helps you clarify what you really feel.

You might choose to try different experiences. That doesn’t have to mean jumping into something physical — though that’s fine if it feels right. It could be going on a date with a woman. It could be exploring friendships with deeper emotional or romantic intensity. It could be imagining what intimacy would feel like in different shapes. There are no rules. You set your pace. You decide what feels safe, right, and exciting for you.

Deciding whether you’re lesbian isn’t about meeting someone else’s checklist. It’s about what feels authentic to you, over time. You might feel sure right away. You might take weeks, months or years. That’s perfectly okay. Don’t rush. Don’t pressure yourself. Let your feelings lead, not expectations or social norms.

You can do this. This is your journey, your questions, your truth. You deserve love, acceptance, and clarity — from yourself first, and from others when you’re ready.

Clitoral orgasms are the most common type of female orgasm and usually come from direct stimulation to the clitoris. This is where sex toys can really come in handy; vibrators, for example, can provide intense sensations that lead to climax. If you’re just starting out with sex toys, a clitoral stimulator is a great option because it doesn't require any insertion or pressure on internal organs. All you have to do is hold it against your clitoris and let it take care of the rest!

The G-spot orgasm is a whole other level of pleasure which requires a bit more effort than the clitoral orgasm but is well worth it. To get started stimulating your G-spot, try using a curved toy specifically designed for this purpose. As with all sex toys, start slow and gradually increase intensity as you become more aroused. You may find that experimenting with different speeds helps you to identify what works best for you and brings you closer to orgasm.

For some women, butt play can be incredibly pleasurable. If this is something that interests you but you’re not sure where to begin, we recommend starting off with small sex toys like anal beads or plugs before moving onto larger ones if desired. Make sure your toys are body safe and apply lubricant generously prior to insertion; this will make everything more comfortable (and more enjoyable) for both partners involved.

If you’re looking for an even more intense experience during masturbation or partnered play, don't forget about nipple stimulation! Nipple clamps are one way to get started but there are also lots of vibrators designed specifically for nipples available too if that's what tickles your fancy (no pun intended). Keep in mind that each person's experience varies so experiment until you find what works best for your body.

Exploring different types of orgasms can be an amazing journey into discovering new levels of pleasure—and thanks to sex toys, it's easier than ever before! Whether it's through clitoral stimulation with a vibrator or G-spot exploration using a curved toy or nipple play with clamps/vibrators/etc., there are countless options available when it comes to unlocking the potential of female orgasms. So why not give one (or all!) a try? You won't regret it!